It was a warm winter day in Culver City, California on January 28, 1936 when Dona Mae England came into the world, the second child and only daughter of Sarah May (Reasoner) and Carlyle “Ted” England. Her father had been out celebrating her birth and later, misspelled her name on her birth certificate; she loved the story and the specialty of the spelling delighted her. She quickly learned what an older brother was and adored Carlyle “Carl” from then until the day she died. Tragedy struck this little family early when at only 34 years old, Sarah died, in the spring of 1939. Dona Mae, at the age of three, was sent to a boarding school at this time, for over a year until Ted married Thelma Dorthea Knapp and she got to go home with her new mommy, daddy and older brother.
Dona Mae completed her education in southern California, attending University High School but, graduating from Santa Monica High class of 1954. During high school she worked at the Santa Monica Hospital, meeting her lifelong treasured friend, Isabelle Barks, with whom she shared a birth date and a most precious friendship. There she noticed a handsome orderly as well. She would tell the story of how she would quickly eat her lunch, and then go outside peering through window waiting for him. After he finished his lunch, she would race inside and down the hall just in time to intercept him coming out of the cafeteria. Young love blossomed and in May of 1955 Dona Mae married Donald James Weldon, becoming the proud wife of a US Navy sailor. To this union two children were born; Michael Dean in 1956 and Rebecca Suzanne in 1960. As is often the case with young love, this relationship ended but, not before moving north into the southern Bay Area of California.
Dona Mae began her venture into single-parenting down the street from one who would become one of her two, most favorite friends of all her life, Liz (Fuentes) Fultz. Liz had a single, good–looking brother, Donald Frank Fuentes who soon became Dona’s 2nd husband in April of 1964. This union was blessed with another daughter in November of 1968, Diana Christine. They enjoyed 37 years together of laughter, family gatherings, car business ventures, nice homes, and the raising of two daughters in Campbell, California near to both of their parents and all of Don’s siblings and their families. After the daughters were grown and gone, business ventures caused a move to Elko, NV in 1991, where they began a new life near the base of the beautiful Ruby Mountain Range. Although hating to leave California they both quickly grew to enjoy their new life. Donald passed away, very suddenly, in October of 2001.
Dona Mae had a passion for our language and words; she had a voracious appetite for writing letters, reading, crossword puzzles-in ink, and the game of scrabble in which she could be a ruthless competitor. Dona was blessed again with ‘young love’ at the age of 67 when she met and married Dean Harold Mitchell in April of 2003. She had met her match in scrabble, in wittiness and an appreciation of Hollywood’s old movies. Dean and Dona Mae spent almost ten years together sharing laughter, wits, and game playing. Suffering a stroke in August of 2012, her health continued to decline until Dona Mae went to be with her precious Lord Jesus, on the first day of spring, March 20th 2013, in Elko Nevada. Dona Mae spent the last couple years of her stepmother’s life writing about her wonderful memories of her growing up years, to Thelma and thanking her. This was not only lovely and compassionate; this was an act of great forgiveness. Dona was always able to search for joy, the good in people and life no matter what happened to her…this light will be missed.
Grateful for having shared her life are her husband Dean Mitchell of Elko NV, her children; Michael (Peggy) Weldon of Lancaster OH, Rebecca (Rocky) Williams of Philip SD and Diana Fuentes of Reno NV; six grandchildren; Jeremiah Adkins, Amber (Ron) Eaton, Joshua (Tiffany) Weldon all of Lancaster OH; Joshua (Jamie) Williams, Jonathan (Carrie) Williams, Lacy Williams all of Rapid City, SD and eleven great-grandchildren; her brother Carl (Marie) England of Vallejo, CA, and sister-in-law Lotty Fuentes of Redwood City, CA and a host of nieces and nephews.
Dona Mae was preceded in death by her parents, her step-parents, her husband Donald Fuentes, sister-in-law Liz Jones, a nephew Doug Fultz, and brother-in-law, Joe Fuentes.
Per her request, she was cremated.
Memorial visitation was held at 2-3 p.m. Saturday, April 6, at the Rush Funeral Home in Philip.
Graveside services were held at 3:00 p.m. Saturday, April 6, at the Masonic Cemetery in Philip, with Pastor Gary Wahl officiating.
Guest Book
Rebecca - so sorry to read of your mother's passing. What a beautiful obituary for your mother. I didn't know her, but I can tell she was a great lady! God bless you and your family.
~ Jolene & Don Haynes
Philip SD (3/20/2013)
So sorry to hear of your mothers death. Remember meeting up with you in the airport in Rapid when you and your baby daughter were coming home from a visit out in California many years ago. You now have the wonderful memories tucked away in your heart to remember her by. God Bless!
~ Shirley & George Dennis
Philip (3/20/2013)
What a beautiful tribute to your mother!! Your faith and strength will bring you great comfort.
~ Roxy Formanek
Hermosa SD (3/20/2013)
Rebecca,
I want to express our sympathy to you in the loss of your mother. That is a fine tribute of her life written up in her obituary. May she rest in peace and may God wrap his arms around you and comfort you.
I have noted how kind and sympathetic you have been to many people in the comforting words you have posted on the register books of many folks you have cared for there in the nursing home and hospital and also for many other friends and acquaintances. God bless you. Though we have never met your mom, I do recall when your grandpa, Ted England, was in the nursing home here in Philip. He was a real gentleman.
Some comforting Bible verses I have shared with others during the loss of a loved one and which are not usually quoted at memorial services are found in the book of Hebrews. They are, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and for ever.” and, “For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the city which is to come. Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name.” (Hebrews 13:8,14-15)
Loren & Rose Kiel
~ Loren & Rose Kiel
20840 E. Grindstone Rd. Quinn, SD (3/20/2013)
Rebecca. we were sorry to hear about your mother, you are in our thoughts. You do so much for Emmie, always a gentle touch and smile. Take care.
~ Les & Joann Pearson
Philip, SD (3/20/2013)
What a beautiful eulogy. You are quite the writer. Your mother would be so proud of you and humbled by your kind words. I was Maid of Honor at her marriage to Don Fuentes. We never, never forgot each other's birthdays. Over the years she would write to me about different books that I should read. I will miss her letters and her wit and her laugh and her innocense.
~ Isabelle
San Diego CA (3/20/2013)
Rebecca -What a wonderful tribute to your mother. You have such a way with words. May you take comfort in your memories. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
~ Karen & Jerry Kroetch
Philip (3/20/2013)
Rebecca,
Words are never sufficient during times like these but I wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts. Hold all those precious memories close to your heart and know that your mom is smiling down at you.
Tammy
~ Tammy
(Prokop) Campoverde (3/20/2013)
Rebecca - So sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. She sounded like such a wonderful mother and friend to many. It is never easy to say goodbye ~ and our mothers can never be replaced. God bless you all!
~ Judy Goldhammer
Wall (3/20/2013)
Rebecca---what a beautiful tribute to your Mother. You obviously share the same love of words that your Mom had. What a wonderful legacy to leave to you. She was a beautiful lady---which she also shared with her daughter. Bless you and your family.
~ Darrel & Anita Peterson
Philip (3/20/2013)
To the whole family. I am so sorry for your loss , thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you . I know how hard it is to lose someone.They are still with us in our hearts.
~ Dawn Knight
Philip so dad (3/20/2013)
What a tribute you wrote for your mother! Knowing she is in a better place is comfort! My sympathy!
~ Shelia Trask
Wasta SD (3/20/2013)
Dear Rebecca, Rocky, and the Family: The story of your Mother's life was absolutely wonderful! She must have been quite a character, as well as kind and loving. We are sure it is our loss to have not had the pleasure of knowing her....though it is apparent she has passed on alot of her good qualities to you, Rebecca. Our loving, caring thoughts will be with all of you. Love, Mike & Shar
~ Mike & Shar Moses
Philip (3/20/2013)
You know you've been on Facebook too long when you want to "like" all of these comments. Agreeing with so many others in your gift for words. You have written a beautiful and touching story that helps all of us feel like we knew your mom even though we never had the priviledge of meeting her on this side of Heaven. You have been on mind and heart every day since your mother's passing and I will continue to lift you up in prayer in the days ahead. A Friend Hug Night will be waiting for you soon. Love always, your sister of th heart.
~ Crystal Eisenbrun
Philip, SD (3/20/2013)
Rebecca and family: So sorry to hear about your Mom. As you know she is in a better place. I have been thinking of you and praying ever since I heard about your Mom. God go with you and your family. It's not easy to let your Mom go.
~ Nancy Ehrhardt
Brandon Sd (3/20/2013)
Dear Rebecca and Family: This is a sad time for you but how wonderful for your Mother. She is home and Happy, Happy, Happy! Who could ask for more. Bless you for your care and understanding of her. God Bless you!
~ Julie Nixon
Philip, Sd (3/20/2013)
Dear Rebecca and family,
Our sympathy in the loss of your Mom. What a neat lady she must have been. You did a great job in telling her life story! God bless you, and God bless her soul.
~ Rita and Glenn OConnell
Philip (3/20/2013)