Judy Fosheim

of Midland, South Dakota, died on Tuesday, October 6, 2026
at her home in Midland at the age of 78

Judith Dianne "Judy" (Nemec) Fosheim was born January 30, 1948, in Pierre, South Dakota, to Ernest and Bessie (Sheeley) Nemec.

Judy grew up on her family's ranch north of Midland, where she learned from an early age the importance of family, hard work, and country life. She attended the Phoeba School, a country school located north of the family ranch. Her upbringing on the ranch helped shape the strong, hardworking, and caring woman she would become.

Judy was, through and through, a "Daddy's Girl," sharing a special bond with her father, Ernest, that remained dear to her throughout her life. Family was never limited to blood for Judy. She was blessed with friendships that grew into family, including the Olesens, who held a special place in her life and heart.

On February 21, 1966, Judy was united in marriage to John Fosheim in Midland, South Dakota. Together, they built a life centered around family, community, hard work, and many wonderful memories. Over the years, they were blessed with six children and also opened their home and hearts to nephew Larry McLaughlin and four foreign exchange students, Stephanie, Ida, Pascale, and Lorena.

John and Judy first made their home at the Linder's place west of Midland before moving into town in 1971. In 1973, they purchased Erv's gas business and renamed it Fosheim Oil Company, beginning another chapter in their life together.

Throughout her life, Judy was an active member of the American Legion Auxiliary and St. William Catholic Church. She drove for the Midland Ambulance and worked for Philip Health Services. She had a deep love for her family and community and was always willing to give her time and talents to others.

Judy enjoyed camping, hunting, four-wheeling, NASCAR and, most of all, spending time with her family. Christmas Eve held an especially dear place in her heart. Each year, she eagerly looked forward to having her family come home, filling the house with conversation, laughter, food, and the joy of simply being together.

One of Judy's proudest community traditions was directing the beloved Hayes Play for 13 years. She poured her heart, creativity, and countless hours into each production, creating memories not only for those who participated but also for the many people who came to enjoy the performances year after year.

Judy also worked as an aide at both Hayes (2005-2007) and Cheyenne (2006-2022) rural schools. She treasured the students she worked with, and they brought tremendous joy to her life. Her caring nature, patience, and genuine interest in others allowed her to make a lasting impression on many young lives.

Above all else, Judy's greatest joy was her family. The life she built with John, the children they raised, the people they welcomed into their home, the friends who became family, and the traditions they created together were among her greatest treasures.

Judy also found great comfort in the companionship of her loyal cat, Dippy. A constant presence by her side, Dippy seemed to know just when she needed a little extra comfort and was always there to keep her company.

Judy will be remembered for her devotion to family, her service to her community, her love for children, her adventurous spirit, and the many ways she brought people together. She had a gift for making people feel welcomed, loved, and part of the family. The traditions she cherished, the friendships she nurtured, and the memories she created will continue to live on through the family, friends, students, and community she loved so dearly.

Survivors include six children: Tena (Andrew Reckling) Slovek of Philip, Jacob (Elizabeth) Fosheim of Sundance, WY, Patrick (Melissa) Fosheim of Midland, Angela (Aaron) Doolittle of Midland, Jared (Tracy) Fosheim of Midland, and Crystal (Levi) Neuharth of Fort Pierre; 23 grandchildren: Casey (April), Heather (Kalvin), Sierra (Tyler), Kash, Dakota (Ashley), Shasta (Tyler), Jesse (Amy), Sheyanne, Lindsey, Lane (Aubrey), Cole, Cassidy, Baxter, Carissa (Matt), Thomas (Megan), Clayton (Tianna), Kaitlyn, Colby (Camrie) Kalli, Johnathon, Justin, and Kaydee; 18 great-grandchildren; brothers John (Linda) Nemec and Tom (Theresa) Nemec; sisters-in-law Laurel Nemec, Edith Schofield, Sylvia Fosheim, Jackie Fosheim, Tina (Orlyn) Haug, Carol Fosheim, and Ruthie (Lou) Gassner; brother-in-law George Gerig; and a host of other relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her husband John on March 18, 2003; her parents Ernest and Bessie Nemec; grandson Jonathon Fosheim; sisters Teresa McLaughlin and Sally Ehlers; brother Ernie Nemec; and many of her brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law.

Cards and memorials may be sent to P.O. Box 147 Midland, SD 57552.

Visitation will be held 5-7 p.m. with a vigil service at 7 p.m. on Sunday, October 18, at St. William Catholic Church in Midland.

Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:00 a.m. Monday, October 19, at St. William Catholic Church in Midland with Father Janusz Korbin as celebrant.

Interment will follow at the Midland Cemetery.

Service Details

VISITATION
Sunday, October 18, 2026 - 5-7 p.m.
St. William Catholic Church
Midland, South Dakota

VIGIL SERVICE
Sunday, October 18, 2026 - 7:00 p.m.
St. William Catholic Church
Midland, South Dakota

MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL
Monday, October 19, 2026 - 10:00 a.m.
St. William Catholic Church
Midland, South Dakota

CELEBRANT
Father Janusz Korbin

MUSIC
Barb Jones - Cantor
Shasta Phillips - Special Music
"Be Not Afraid" - "Amazing Grace"
"Here I Am Lord" - "How Great Thou Art"

USHERS
Randy Nemec - Joshua McLaughlin

PALLBEARERS
Casey Slovek - Kash Slovek - Dakota Fosheim
Jesse Fosheim - Baxter Fosheim - Thomas Doolittle
Clayton Fosheim - Colby Fosheim
Johnathon Neuharth - Justin Neuharth

HONORARY PALLBEARERS
All Family and Friends in Attendance

INTERMENT
Midland Cemetery
Midland, South Dakota

Guest Book

My deepest condolences on the loss of a wonderful woman. Judy was always so sweet and treated me like I was one of her own kids whenever I was around. She was very loved and will be greatly missed.
   ~ Lynette Clay Pelzer, SC (10/10/2026)
To All of Judy’s Family-
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I know how much you will miss her. May God hold you close and help you through the days ahead.

   ~ Julie McLaughlin Midland (10/10/2026)
Fosheim Family,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy at Judy's passing. She always gave me a big welcome in her uniquely warm way whenever our paths met. What a special lady. Memories of Judy make me smile...All my love, a classmate

   ~ Pat Haddock Omaha, NE (10/14/2026)
To Judy’s family. I was sad to learn of Judy’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you celebrate her life and cherish the memories of special family times and events together. We had such a nice visit at the school reunion last summer.
   ~ Marcia Jackson Spearfish, SD (10/12/2026)
Deepest sympathy to Judy's family and friends.
   ~ Helen Neuharth Casa Grande, AZ (10/8/2026)
I met Judy through bowling on a team with her and Carol. She was so much fun and a wonderful person. I also saw her when we would go to the Cheyenne School to do vision screenings of the students. I went to the plays and it was always so fun. Judy was so very nice to everyone. She will be missed `by so many. My prayers go out to Judy's large family and many friends.
   ~ Gayle Merscheim Fort Pierre, SD (10/15/2026)
Im so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful person Judy was.
   ~ Holly Ammons Murdo (10/9/2026)

Flowers

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Midland High School Class of 1992
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First National Bank: Shawn, Blaine, Caroline, Sara, and Sherrie
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Kramer Family
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Cattle Business Weekly
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Dakota Country Pharmacy
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Jenny, John, Berlin, and Victoria Stevens
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Midland High School Class of 2004
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Hayes Hall Board of Directors and Hayes Drama Club
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Ann Cvach; Ron Larson and Family; Greg Larson and Family; and Kathy LaDue and Family
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Ross and Janice Williams and Families
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Dan and Cindy Hauk
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LaRae and Aaron Kirstie and Sab, Kristen, Andrew, and Family
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The McQuirks
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PHS Class of 2013
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Prairie Winds 4-H Board
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Julie McLaughlin and Family
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Brett and Susan; Tory and Leanna; Forrest and Londa; and Families
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Clark Hindman
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Mike and Shar Moses
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Monte and Vicki
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The Olesen Families
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The Dalys: Brennan, Vicki, John, Emily, Flynn, Brett, and Haylee
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Family - Grandkids: Shasta, Tyler, Harper, and Tristin; Jesse, Amy, and Thea; Dakota, Ashley, Ava, and Shay; Sheyanne; Lane, Aubry, and Grayson; Lindsey; and Cole and Cassidy
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Keith and Amber Smith
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Family
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Debbie, Marvin, Matt, Bridget, Macaela, and Travis
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The Price Family
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The Fischers: Tonia, Jeff, Craig, and Shelia
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Cindy and the Soil Health Board and Staff
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Laurel Nemec; Randy and Holly Nemec and Family; Terry Nemec and Family; Rick and Sue Nemec and Family; Becky and Rob Thompson and Family; and Todd and Barb Larson and Family
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Shaun and Brandie Slovek
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Midland Area EMS