Patricia J. "Pat" Willard

of Kadoka, South Dakota, died on Friday, February 21, 2025
at the Kadoka Nursing Home at the age of 99

Patricia “Pat” J. (Estes) Willard, affectionately known as "Crazy Grandma" by her beloved grandchildren, passed away, leaving behind a legacy of love and cherished memories. Born on December 27, 1925, on her great-grandfather's ranch near Belvidere, South Dakota, she was the daughter of David B. and Myrtle (Hutton) Estes. Growing up on the family ranch, Pat had a wonderful childhood and was the apple of her great grandfather “Corny” Utterback eye. Pat graduated in 1944 as the sole graduate of Belvidere High School, she was therefore apart of the Kadoka High School commencement. She furthered her studies at Black Hills State University, earning her teaching certificate and dedicating several years to educating students in western South Dakota where she was fondly remembered by many of her students.

She met her husband, Charles J. Willard, while teaching in Quinn, South Dakota and he was teaching in Interior, South Dakota. They were later married on December 3, 1950, in Keystone, South Dakota. Together, they made their home in Pukwana for a year before relocating to Eagle Butte, where they spent 11 wonderful years. Their journey continued in Timberlake until their retirement brought them back to Belvidere in 1976. In 1987, they moved to Sturgis for a year before settling in Kadoka in 1988. After Charles's passing on March 26, 1989, Pat continued to live in Kadoka where she enjoyed spending time with her grandkids and friends that lived close by. Later Pat decided to move to the Senchel in Philip and later resided in assisted living there before moving to the Kadoka Nursing Home where a new family of caretakers emerged and became very dear to her and her children.

A devoted member of the Belvidere Church and the Evergreen Chapter of the Eastern Star of Kadoka, Pat held a special place in the hearts of her community.

She is survived by her son, Charles J Willard and his wife Merry of Belvidere, South Dakota; three daughters, Janelle Schweitzer and her husband Thomas of Castle Rock, Colorado, Judith Bauman and her husband John of Long Valley, South Dakota, and Jacqueline Fortin and her husband Tom of Sioux Falls, South Dakota. Pat was also a proud grandmother of 13 and a great-grandmother to 26, along with a host of other relatives and friends who will miss her dearly.


Pat was preceded in death by her husband, Charles Willard; her daughter, Suzanne Willard; her parents David B and Myrtle Estes; her brother, James E. Estes; her stepdaughter, Kaye Roehrick, and her husband Dwayne of Pavilion, Wyoming; and her great granddaughter Aubrey Chambers.


Pat will be remembered for her vibrant spirit and unwavering love for her family. Her legacy will continue to live on in the hearts of those she touched.

Cards and memorials may be sent to P.O. Box 25 Belvidere, SD 57521.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Friday, February 28, 2025 at the Belvidere Community Hall.

Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 1, 2025 at the Belvidere Community Church.

Interment will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, March 3, 2025 at Black Hills National Cemetery near Sturgis.

Service Details

VISITATION
Friday, February 28, 2025 - 5-7 p.m.
Belvidere Community Hall
Belvidere, South Dakota

FUNERAL SERVICE
Saturday, March 1, 2025 - 11:00 a.m.
Belvidere Community Church
Belvidere, South Dakota

CLERGY
John Kaiser

MUSIC
Joyce Wheeler - Pianist
Lyndy Ireland - Vocalist
“Prayer is the Key to Heaven”
“Beyond the Sunset”
Congregational Hymn
“It is Well with My Soul”
Recessional Song
“Oh Happy Day”

OBITUARY READER
Randi Chambers

PALLBEARERS
Casey Willard - Faron Willard - John Willard III - Dakota Bauman
Boe Bauman - Brenden Chambers - Caleb Kleinsasser
Coleen (Willard) Gransden - Nicole Willard
Erin (Schweitzer) Eubank - Anna (Schweitzer) Romcevich
Jonnie (Bauman) Dye - Randi Bauman Chambers
Fr. Lee Allen Fortin - Hanna (Fortin) Dorow - Suzanne Frazier
Scot Wellman - Steve Roehrick

HONORARY PALLBEARERS
All Relatives and Friends in Attendance

INTERMENT
Monday, March 3, 2025 - 10:30 a.m.
Black Hills National Cemetery
Sturgis, South Dakota

Guest Book

Jackie and Family,
I remember in high school coming to Belvidere to study with you at your home and how much fun we had with your mom. Her laugh could light up a room, and everyone felt so welcome.
I am so pleased she was in my life, and I know she was a blessing to many others.
May she have a long deserved rest although she will be greatly missed.

   ~ Erin Osborn Van Norman Mesilla, NM (2/23/2025)
Judy, what a beautiful Mom! I will always remember her sweet smile & twinkle in her eye! You’re all in my prayers. XO
   ~ Michele Fundaun Sundance WY (2/26/2025)
I so enjoyed my visits with “Auntie Pat”. Sometimes she was a little hard to find😀. I remember finding her in Phillip SD before she went in to the nursing home. She said Daunie how do you keep finding me…I replied that everyone knows you….you can’t hide! Gary & I were headed to Deadwood in 2017 & found out she had moved, so we went back to the nursing home she was in and had a very nice visit😀 I will always think if her when traveling by Beresford, Kadoka & Phillip❤️❤️
   ~ Daunitta Buoy Burwell Ne (3/30/2025)
Dear family, I know it's not easy to say goodbye but we take comfort in knowing she is with God and family . She did God's work her whole life and our amazing family is testament to this. Love you all!
   ~ Suzanne Frazier Nashville, TN (3/1/2025)

Flowers

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Jesse and Shari Taylor
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Kadoka Nursing Home Staff, Residents, and Board of Directors
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"Grandma Pat" - Scott and Marilyn Wellman
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The Johnsons: Chuck and Jane, Jeremy and Linda, and Andy and Ally
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Journey Group
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Your Graco Family
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SD Stockgrowers Association
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Suzanne, Erica, and Gabriel Frazier
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"Family Friend" - the Robb Ganje Family
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(Brigitte Bardot) Brigit Hindman Schofield